Tim Chard - The Emotions Blog

Have you ever pointed the finger at someone and said something like, ‘you never do enough for me’ or ‘you never show your love to me’?

You may need to read this entry on ‘The Pointed Finger’.

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It wreaks of a stench the pedophile protection racket that is endemic in Australian Politics.

As I have stated in an earlier post about pedophiles, if you are not against it, you are for it. You cannot sit on the fence.

The Australian Government and the State Governments that continually sweep information and knowledge of pedophile activities under the carpet should be completely ashamed of themselves. Rather than see a child who has been violated, they see a pedophile who is being victimised. There are no harsh penalities for Child Sexual Abuse. I do not condone the rape of an adult, but having punishments that make raping a child under 15 a ‘better option’ punishment wise makes a mockery of our judicial system. Children are ours and any countries most valuable assets. Why won’t our elected representatives grow some kahunas and legislate harsher penalties for these dispicable acts? What are they protecting? Who are they protecting? If they are not for it then it why aren’t they making the penalties harsher? Why aren’t they supporting the people who expose these monsters?

In the last few days here in Australia, a leading Federal Politician has been convicted on 28 counts of sexually abusing boys and supplying drugs. What stinks in this saga is not the light sentence that he will recieve, but the fact that the lady who worked for him in his office who found out what was going on and alerted police has been sacked for breach of confidentiality. The Government has decided that they are on the side of pedophiles by punishing the person who outed him.

Article can be seen here at News.com.au

Their reply in defense of their actions would be that she broke the law and all they are doing is upholding it. What a load of bull! If you are allowed to take up arms in self defense, then why are you not allowed to use your brains and ‘break’ the law in order to save a precious child. She wasn’t selling Intellectual Property. She was saving the lives of the kids involved.

It stinks of a cover up and it stinks of a pedophile loyalty ring.

Get bent Morris Iemma. Get bent Reba Meagher. It must bring tears of joy to the pedophiles eyes knowing that their elected officials are covering up their gross indecencies.

And now this…

Tip-off put my life in danger

What is the world coming to when you try and help a child only to be labeled a ‘whistleblower’? It smacks in the face of Human Decency and Respect when the roots of our democratic society are entangled in a web of lies and deceit. Our Politicians are supposed to be serving us, the people. Instead they are serve us a pile of steaming terd and hope that we will just swallow it without question. It is time this Government chooses which side it is fighting for. So far it’s pedophiles 1, children 0…

Tim Chard

In a report I heard today, 1 in 4 girls aged between 0 - 18 and 1 in 7 boys aged 0 - 18 have been sexually abused. That means that for every three.five people you know, one of them has been sexually abused.

When dealing with pedophiles there are only two sides, for and against. There are no shades of grey. As adults we must take a stand. We are either for it or against it. You cannot sit on the fence. If I was to ask you ‘are you for or against child sexual abuse?’ What would your answer be? Because there is no shades of grey, we must be pro-actively against it or fundamentally for it. You cannot be in the middle or not caring, because if you are not against it, you are by in-action for it.

Being pro-active against pedophiles doesn’t mean violence against pedophiles. It means being active in the protection of your children. Pedophiles seek out trusting people. Pedophiles seek out nice people. Pedophiles form friendships and relationships with their victims families. How? Pedophiles are ‘nice’ people. Pedophiles work where we work. Pedophiles blend into society like other normal people.

To be pro-active we need to educate our children. Sexual education with children can be a difficult subject to broach. Get together with your “Mum’s Club” or your “Dad’s Club” and discuss the education ideas. Being pro-active and educated has saved us and our kids very recently and it could save you and your kids. Even with all the headlines that are around, I am astounded that parents often think that it won’t happen to them and their kids.

As a guide to ‘knowing’ when to educate your children, use their language as a rule of thumb. If they can understand simple language, then you use simple lanaguage. It doesn’t have to be scientifically correct for it to be beneficial. As the child grows older you can use more complex lanaguage and terms that are understandable by the child.

So why this entry you might ask? It doesn’t have anything to do with Emotions. But it does. Protecting your children from sexually depraved individuals is right up there with food, water and shelter as a basic need. By protecting your child from these individuals, you are in essence protecting their valuable emotional assets

More on this subject coming…

Tim Chard

Have been thinking about individuality and how, as much we cling to it like it was a pot of gold, it doesn’t seem to be worth its weight.

I always thought, ‘Yeah, baby - I’m an Individual!’ But now I find myself realising that my individuality is what put me - almost - in a straight jacket. Incidently, it wasn’t because I was nuts, it was because I was going nuts trying to be somebody else, to keep somebody else happy. Phew!!!

I had struggled for years to be ‘normal’ like other folk (bbq’s and ball games and church), but now I think they are just boring old gits and I couldn’t think of anything better then being who I am right now. The person who I struggled to be rid of for so many years because the rest of the world (my screwed up world) wanted me to conform and give up my individuality, was the exact person I wanted to be - with a few edges straightened and such.

I was, due to outside forces, trying to live life as two individuals. Then I have stood up and looked out over the horizon and have seen the possibilites for my future as the real me. I threw out the imposter individual and with it my family - not by my choice, because they wanted me to be the other fellow. Now here I am, fresh as a daisy, singing, and dancing, and laughing and happy.

I came to the realisation that individuality is only worth its weight in gold if you are in control of it and doing what you want to do.

So you are trying to de-tangle your feelings. You can partly describe how you feel, but you are finding it difficult if not impossible to understand why you are feeling a certain way.

What effects your feelings are your emotions. Emotions are just an instruction that the body gets ‘told’ to ‘act’ out and you get a feeling as a result. A warm flush, a spine tingle, maybe even a shiver. This feeling is quickly followed by a conscious thought. That conscious thought is usually as clear as mud and thus we find it difficult to understand what we are feeling.

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